How To Use a Dildo

If you want a discreet sex toy, the dildo is the best choice because it's quiet, it does not make noise like a vibrator does and packs an incredible sexually satisfying feel! A dildo is the perfect sex toy to have around when you live with a nosy roommate!

The first and most important factor in a pleasurable experience with your dildo sex toy is proper lubrication. Always use a personal lubricant with your dildo for comfort and that slippery feel. Natural lubrication is often not enough and that could cause discomfort from too much friction between the dildo and your skin.
In fact, the major reason why women report that they do not enjoy dildo sex toys is because they did not use personal lubricant!
Always make sure your personal lubricant is water based because silicone based lubricant will ruin silicone dildos, and petroleum lubricant will ruin virtually any dildo sex toy material. Silicone lubricant is okay to use with latex dildos. If unsure what your dildo sex toy is made of, you can email us and ask or play it safe and use water based personal lubricantwhich is compatible with any sex toys. It is safe to use a flavored lubricant and many women enjoy flavored lubricant because it adds an enjoyable sweet smell.

Realistic dildos are made to resemble a real penis with a solid feel with veins and a realistic probing penis head.
The Cyberskin dildo feels exactly like a real penis, down to every little detail, even the bulges of the veins. The Cyberskin dildo is the most realistic dildo.
Realistic dildos add a touch of realism to your pleasure, sometimes you might not have your partner around or maybe you're single. The dildo sex toy is the perfect replacement for the penis! Also great if you are a virgin and want to know what a penis feels like without losing your virginity. The realistic dildo is also perfect if you just don't feel like giving it up to a man, your dildo will never get soft and never say no!

Here's an exclusive tip on using dildo sex toys:

Consider a double dildo. Not just for porn movies and lesbians, the double dildo, is a good choice because many of them are flexible and the length of 12 or 18 inches assures you wont lose your grip and makes for easier handling without having to bend over! This is especially recommended if you enjoy deep or forceful penetration.

The sensations found on a jelly dildo are slick and slippery compared to the solid feeling of a realistic dildo. If you enjoy the feeling of being 'filled up' or a squishy soft feeling, a jelly dildo is perfect for you. Jelly dildos conform to your body's contours so you can thrust away as hard as you like without any discomfort.

Some dildos come with suction cup bases. These are versatile dildos, you can stick them to a tabletop, or on a wall and enact your favorite fantasy, and 'your man' will never go soft! Call it 'prop and play' when you stick the dildo on the floor and squat on it! Close your eyes and get lost in a sexual fantasy with a dildo with a suction cup base. You'll never know how great it is until you've tried it!
Most suction cup bases are also harness compatible, so you can attach them to a strap on harness.

The final note about how to use a dildo: it's really up to your imagination. Lock the door, don't be shy and explore your sexuality and let your inhibitions go!


Tips and techniques
Because dildos are dry and somewhat porous they absorb moisture so it is a good idea to always use a lubricant.  The muscles of both the vagina and the anus tighten and constrict.  If you are a first time user it's a good idea to lube up and do some external stimulation.  The tip of the dildo simulates the head of a penis so moving it up and down on the clitoris will provide great stimulation.  Once you feel comfortable you can move on to internal insertion.  You can do a few tightening and constricting exercises of the vagina or anus muscles first.  When the blood is flowing through the area exhale and insert.  Do not insert further than is comfortable and remember that you control the experience.  Once you feel comfortable, you can start getting creative by placing the dildo on a surface that you can straddle.  If you are sharing a dildo with a partner be sure to use a condom and always use a condom if you are moving the dildo from the anus to the vagina. 

Dildo sizes
The biggest mistake people make in purchasing a dildo is buying one that is too large. While it is true that the body can accommodate many different sizes, keep in mind that a thinner shaft is easier to to maneuver.  If you have never purchased a dildo before, try the "Vegetable Test".  Clean up a carrot, zucchini and a cucumber and see what feels best - when you have decided what works then measure the length of the the vegetable (both length and diameter) and you will have your answer.  If you are not into vegetables the "Finger Test" will also work. If you have recently had any kind of genital surgery or a long absence from sexual relations then smaller is better - you can always upgrade. The width of the dildo may be more important than the length.  Dildos vary in diameter ranging from 1" to 6".  As a rule of thumb 1 - 1 1/2" in diameter will be large enough. The most common dildo lengths are 6, 7, 8 and 9 inches. The average purchase if for a 6-8" shaft length.  If you like very deep penetration, choose a dildo 8" or longer. You can always thrust less deeply, but you cannot make a dildo that is too short reach further.  Vaginal length often correlates to height, so if you have a shorter frame you will probably prefer a shorter dildo.   
When looking at a dildo for anal play, remember that there is a curve in the rectum 3-5 inches in from the opening, so consider something shorter than 3".  Read more here!  

Care and cleaning
After purcahsing a dildo open the package and allow the it to air out so  any plastic odors will dissipate. Wash in antiseptic soap and water. A stronger cleaning solution is a bleach and water solution of [1 part bleach to 9 parts water] but read the label for cleaning instructions before using bleach.  Your dildo will last longer and be easier to keep clean if you use it with a condom.  If you are using it by yourself, make sure that you wash the dildo with antiseptic soap and water after every use and especially moving it from one part of the body to another.  Warm, antiseptic soapy water and a thorough rinsing is an absolute MUST!  Silicon dildos can be boiled in hot water and even washed in the dish washer.  If you have been diagnosed with any type of STD, vaginatis or any other medical problem use a condom so that you do not keep re-infecting yourself.  Always use a condom when sharing toys.  Make sure to dry your dildo carefully - any left over moisture can cause growth of fungus or mold.  Store your dildo(s) in a cool, dry place.  Direct sunlight or excessive heat will cause disfiguration and fading.